Does he really Love me? or wants to use me financially? adults only Pls?

It's easy to be in love when everything is going well, but difficult when they aren't. I don't think anyone should use the good times to judge how well someone loves you, but rather the hard times. Have you ever had an argument? What's his conflict resolution skills? Does he hold a grudge? Can he compromise? Don't go starting a fight to figure it all out, but without these kind of answers, i would certainly hold off. Bad answers here may signal a poor ability to manage long term relationships, including marriage.